Tuesday, May 5, 2020

Emotions Which Remain Unsaid

The best part i am fond of about existing in this universe and living each second of life is our EMOTIONS/SENTIMENTS
yes,
the word itself comes with lots of thoughts when we think of it,it is not just a word, this word itself comes with a lot of  thought processes and many sentiments connected to it,at the same time  this word strikes so many chemical reactions in our mind and heart too, for every person on this planet this word has its own different meanings, some people claim to be emotionless, well but by saying so they are venting out an emotion only, some are expressive some are introverts some are good in hiding but out of all these some still remain unsaid in all of us..


Each one of us in this life deals with many kind of EMOTIONS in various stages of life, but when i just sit back and relax my mind and give a moment to just analyse my own emotions, i can think of lots  which made me happiest ever and lots which were always hard to deal with but also lots of those one which wrenched my heart to some point or gave me a feel of frustration, frustration of never letting those emotions out to anyone, irritation of not acknowledging my own emotions at right time,frustration  of not putting across my emotions the way they should be at the right moment,Those are ones which always remain unsaid or may be unacknowledged, not to the world, not to the ones around me, but  to my own self, yes,we deal with lots of emotional situations in our day to day life and keep ourselves so much busy in hustling of this growing world that we do not even focus on what our inner peace demands, what's our emotional state demands right now,  as we always say Go With The Flow, but why we just don't take that extra little effort to just hold on to our emotions little more and put them across in a right manner.
Nowadays, people have made a list of their priorities, set goals, have high ambitions,decided their dream car, their dream holiday, their dreams but what we are forgetting while making this list as fancy as we can is, to imagine a stability inside us, kind of an emotional balance, while we achieve those, because somewhere or the other in our heart we will always be able to feel that little corner inside us which will remind us of those compromises,that void of not making sure of our own happiness, that compromises which we may have made with ourselves only, while dealing with our emotions and just let those fade away with time, why can't we just hold onto a kind of  situation and take our own time to come out of the situation why we always has to somewhere or sometime compromise with our own emotions which remain unsaid, which will always remain inside us only.




Tuesday, April 28, 2020

Being a part of Crowd

Being part of crowd

So, there is a saying that we usually hear, success comes to those who always stand out in crowd , well, this might be true but i want to ask why always any being is so much pressurised to stand out in crowd, why he/she always have to make themselves sound different out of all others, why he/she always have to think out of the box, why he/she always have to perform best, why only 100% matters and not even 99.99% values, sometimes it just feels horrible to think what if i am not able to answer something out of the box, what if i sound bit ordinary, what if i am not so perfect in doing anything,what if i have a boring personality, what if i always stand out as a mediocre in every field, what if i doesn't seem interesting to some person, what if i act crazy and not disciplined all the time, what if i doesn't follow a fitness regime, what if i couldn't score that extraordinary to become a topper of my batch, what if i lack behind, is the society not going to accept me? how people will judge me? how i am going to be rated in this modern world. 
well,there is nothing wrong in being a part of crowd and just lead a happy life until or unless i am living a Happy Life, Nothing is wrong as i do not have to give proof of my existence at every second of life by being an extraordinary and steal the limelight,i don't need to. At the end what will remain with me is my happiness, my inner peace which is only going to define me to the world as well as to my soul.
So, It Is Okay To Be A Part Of Crowd ...